“Like father, like son” – this proverb holds true across generations. Parents are mirrors reflecting the image of their children. So, when that “mirror” is distorted and skewed, can children grow up healthy and beneficial to society? How to improve soft skills is a question that parents should ask themselves from the moment their children are young.
“Daddy, My Love” – When Mother Becomes “The Destroyer”
The story of a 4-year-old boy in Hanoi suddenly calling his father “my love,” addressing his mother as “brother,” and exhibiting gender-bending behaviors has recently caused public outrage. People condemned, criticized, and even insulted the boy’s family. Few know that behind that innocent laughter lies a family tragedy, where the mother unintentionally sowed “seeds of sin” into her own innocent child.
Every day, this mother often watched adult movies and even carelessly “discussed” vulgar content in front of her young child. This lack of awareness and understanding of child psychology led the mother to unintentionally “narrate” vulgar and distorted images into her child’s young mind.
This story is a wake-up call for parents about the importance of sex education and guidance for children from a young age. Lack of attention, lack of understanding, or even parental indifference can have unpredictable consequences for a child’s psychology and development.
Beyond Skills, It’s Morality
The story of the 4-year-old boy in Hanoi is not just a lesson about sex education, but also a profound reminder of the role of morality in shaping human character. “Forgive and forget,” but in this case, the mother is the one who “returned” to sow the seeds of sin on her own flesh and blood.
According to Assoc. Prof. Dr. Nguyen Van A (lecturer at Hanoi National University of Education), “Exposure to harmful and offensive content from movies, the internet, etc., can negatively impact children’s psychology, perception, and behavior. Especially in the age of 3-6 years, children are very easily influenced by their surrounding environment.”
Therefore, parents are not only transmitters of knowledge, spending management skills… but also the first teachers, guiding children about moral values and healthy lifestyles. A child raised in a healthy educational environment, equipped with sufficient knowledge and life skills, will confidently step into life and become a useful member of society.
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